Self improvement?

In this era,  everyone is busy judging others and trying to make themselves 'eligible' for the so called high class society. Busy to improve themselves and take it to another level. But my friend, the question is, is it self improvement or self hypnosis? You're trying to take a level up or you're actually taking a step back? Why can't you just be yourself and stop pretending.

You don't have to be perfect enough so that everybody will like you!! you're a mess but you're a beautiful mess, embrace it. Don't untangle it and transform yourself into a systematic robot, be messy. You can build a boat and cross Pacific in it but let me tell you something, you can't really do that while you're busy trying to sink someone else's ship. 

And all this for what? For others? For the people? No. We never really see others, instead we see what they wants us to see.. Their shadows, darker and Emptier. So, may be you should stop running behind someone else's shadow and start being you. Because no can play 'you' better than yourself in this act of life. Show the world that you're quirky, crazy, weird, dumb, imperfect but at least real. 

Get out of this mental blockage and start being splendidly ruined!! Well, if you still want improvement, improve your character rather than your looks and appearance. Stop self hypnosis in the name of self improvement. After all, we only have one life and we can't please everyone!!